Intentional Engagement, Part 2

The more consideration I’ve given to this topic, the more I’ve realized that Dad engaged with us kids (with me, I know) in very intentional ways. When there were serious topics he wanted to discuss, an after supper conversation in the dining room, or going for a ride in the car, or working on a project often provided the time and setting needed for that chat. Whether there were questions for us (me), answers to questions we (I) had asked at some point that he had been pondering, or just general guidance for life and/or godliness, Dad was thorough. I often went to him for advice, and even if he didn’t give it right away, I knew he’d provide input somewhere down the road. More than anything Dad said or did in my presence, though, his prayers for me have been constant.

As a dad myself, I look for ways to emulate my father’s example–and my father-in-law’s example. Both men love God and their children, and they set examples to follow. Intentional love is ultimately the love of God, and as they have tried to obey His commands as Dads, I do that now, too.

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Author: Mack Ames

I teach adult education, including high school equivalency test prep, adult basic education, and Work Ready for Corrections, a workplace readiness course at a correctional facility. I am married with two sons in high school. I have a dry sense of humor and try not to take myself more seriously than necessary.

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